I found this post on www.huffington.com that was originally from Jill Smokler at www.scarymommy.com describing how Jill sees herself as a parent and it really hit home, especially the pool and bath reference. I think more often than not, things may not work out exactly like we want them to or think they should, but we try our best to be good parents.
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I am a breastfeeding failure whose children still managed to thrive.
I am a parenting class drop-out.
I am an unintentional co-sleeper.
I am an out of frustration yeller.
I am an infrequent school volunteer-er.
I am a reluctant short order cook.
I am an unfortunate curser.
I am a thank you note believer, but often forgetter.
I am a Betty Crocker baker.
I am a laugher, at all the wrong moments.
I am an eye roller.
I am an incompetent homework helper.
I am a skip the bath if you’ve been to the pool believer.
I am a documenter of the little moments.
I am a lover of my children, but disliker of most others.
I am a non-bedmaker.
I am a well intentioned mistake maker.
I am a laid back obsessor.
I am an over-bandager if it stops the crying.
I am a “tomorrow is a new day” vower.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jill-smokler/what-kind-of-parent-are-you_b_1613480.html?ref=topbar